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1) Hopefully you still have enough contact with him to get him to sign all the paperwork to sell the place. If not then I don't see how you can sell it.

I'm not sure. He hasn't been responding to e-mail, but I think he is just ignoring us. My guess is that he would pop up if we let him know there was a potential sale. As far as signing a document, he has made it pretty clear that he isn't going to do anything that would simplify matters. In fact, he seems intent on making this as difficult as possible. Apparently, this is his way of punishing her.

2) When the house does sell it is likely that there will be any equity to get cash out of the closing?

No. The house is currently on the market for about $17,000 less than the purchase price, and we have no offers. If we did sell, which he claims to want at ANY cost, he would have to make good on back payments before we agreed to move forward.

Just to help clarify the type of individual we are dealing with, at the onset of this downward spiral, he told their mother that his goal was to "financially ruin her(my girlfriend, his sister) forever." Also, when this all began, my girlfriend was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. When he found out, through their father, his response was something to the effect of "Good, she deserved to get sick, she had it coming." He views it as a weakness that he can capitalize on.

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