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Subject:  Re: Tough weekend Date:  3/19/2001  1:56 PM
Author:  heatherlynn Number:  49 of 15011

Niki:

I know you would love to stay home with your son for a year. I plan on, when I have kids, being a stay at home mom, no matter what I have to do. I am trying to get my business off the ground so it won't matter, I can still work, earn money, yet be home for the kids. *grin* Depression has killed it for a while, but I am refusing to give up from now on!

My first thing to tell you is to NOT take his blowing up personally. He has issues that he needs to deal with. Yes, you can love him through the issues, just don't take his problems as your own. I've always taken problems as my own, when they are NOT my problems. It drives so many wedges into things, it's difficult to concentrate and focus.

Good going with finding a therapist for the both of you. If you need to find a ther