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Subject:  Re: Net worth/net income ratio stories. Date:  8/22/2003  11:47 AM
Author:  Eldrehad Number:  532 of 5138

Please add your own story to this thread.

My liquid net worth is probably about 2/3 of my annual income, and I'm 37 years old. Do I wish I were further along than I am? Of course... but am I unhappy with myself because I'm not? No... because each situation depends upon one's circumstances. Here are mine:

When I was a teenager, my mother bought a copy of The Wealthy Barber and encouraged each of her three children to read it. This was my first real introduction to finance and investing in any kind of formal sense. There are a few lessons that I learned from that book, but the most powerful was just how big compound interest works over time. There were a few lessons/ideas in that book that upon further learning I have rejected, but that book planted the first the seed.

Well... no... actually it didn't - the first seed was planted before I ever read that book - allow me to explain a bit.

I have an M.B.A. these days, and my concentrations were corporate strategy and finance. I've worked as a corporate financial analyst ever since getting my M.B.A. (about four years ago). I've been around the Fool a while - and am not as big an expert as many around here, but I am certainly no newbie.

But the lessons I learned before even cracking the spine on The Wealthy Barber probably account for about as much as everything I've learned since. How can that be?

Well... I had a typical middle-class suburban upbringing. My parents bought as nice a home as they could afford, in one of the best at the time (and I think still is) school districts in the state. My father was a C.P.A., my best three friends' fathers were an engineer, a lawyer, and a small businessman (owned his own small business). Maybe slightly upper-middle class would be a better description of the neighborhood.

So how was it I learned as much at 15 or 16 as I've learned since, even including evertying here at the Fool or in my formal education?

By watching what financial decisions my parents made.

You see, my friends' parents would typically buy new cars ever 5 years or so... sometimes even a Mercedes. Impressed with these new cars (especially the Mercedes), I'd ask my parents, "Why don't we have new cars?"

My father would say, "Because the depreciate a huge amount the second you drive them off the lot. A car's just transportation, as long as it's reliable that's what really matters, and there are more important uses for the money than paying all that depreciation cost."

Another of my friends's parents (the engineer) liked to buy new, fancy electronic devices. He actually bought a Betamax in the early days - when they were very expensive. Even after VHS had won the war, we still didn't have a VCR - even after the prices had become far more reasonable. Then cable television arrived in our neighborhood. All of my friends had cable television. I envied all of those channels they had, especially the ability to watch more baseball games than I had access to with our little T.V. with the rabbit ears on top. I asked, "Why don't we have cable?"

My mom would say, "Because there's enough junk on television, why do I want to pay for more junk? Besides, there are more important things to spend the money on."

Deciding what's most important to you, and spending your money accordingly... that's the lesson I learned from my parents, and one that rivals all I've learned since. Maybe the Mercedes and cable T.V. were what were truly important to my friends' parents - I'm not second-guessing their lifestyles - but this is the lesson I learned and how I learned it.

Anyway, after reading The Wealthy Barber I knew I could someday be wealty if I just started early enough, and kept at it.

When I got my first job (I'd had others that lasted several months, this was the first lasting one) in college, the company offered a 401(k) after a certain period of employment - 50% matching up to 6% of my pay, and fully vested from the start. I, of course, cont