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|Subject: Re: Lacking direction, Master's degree but no ca||Date: 5/4/2008 8:38 AM|
|Author: slowlythere||Number: 307 of 317|
Greetings and sympathies janinaP,
Answer broken up in two parts.
Part I: sharing general thoughts about ADHD and frustrations. I didn't know I had ADHD until five months ago (January 2008). Not sure how old you are now, or when you were first diagnosed, but I am in my fifth decade of life with years. we are talking decades of bad and enduring life choices. These decades also include paying down six figures in consumer debt over these decades... which does not include a mortgage.
I share this in the spirit of saying
(1) you aren't the only one to feel you've made missteps (that *might* be attributable in part to ADHD) and
(2) struggling with how to deal with the past mistakes and wondering about your direction from here, now.
Otherwise I have literally met people with multiple masters and one or more doctorates who eventually felt that much of it was meaningless or for naught. Others who went down the path of cross-country moves and transitions, personal relationships, marriages, often even children, could say the same from a different direction. No matter where *you* are (or I am), if you're (I'm) frustrated by it, it feels like terrible missteps from where you are (I am) standing, now. It's not only a ADHD thing, btw.
Part II: Suggestion/idea (a little crazy perhaps). You may laugh at me or think I am telling you something incredibly stupid or even insulting, but I hope you'll give it a moment or two of consideration as to *why* I think it's a possible (if laughable/stupid) idea. Would you consider becoming an Emergency Medical Technician - Basic (EMT-B)? The occupation exposes you not just to emergency* patient situations but also to many other social dynamics in a soundbite.
My suggestion is meant mostly as a *short-term* idea for many reasons (lousy pay, high stress, etc.), but also a possible perfect fit for many with ADHD (think of the job etc.: other than being an E.R. doctor, it is one of the virtually perfect occupations for ADHD in the health care professions). Also there are *many* trained and certified EMTB (and if you choose you can go on to the Paramedic level) who actually often have active careers in other parts of the field at some stage, or non-health care fields even. Some young people who get into this early on later go into other health care careers (not limited to becoming doctors and RNs); some moderately older people