But maybe she talks about it so much to counteract the general assumption that "everyone is doing it". The fact is that some people are NOT doing it... as a conscious choice that has nothing to do with repression, fear or any negative thing. Some people believe that waiting is worth it. Period. Why should that bug you so much? Or do you assume that anyone who has religious faith and attempts to live accordingly, is automatically freaky? I actually don't talk about it as much as everyone seems to think I do.I for one don't understand why everyone's so dang interested in my vagina, but it seems like once it comes up, no one wants to drop it.I think people are intimidated by stuff they don't understand, and those that are so hard on me about my virginity don't understand why someone would CHOOSE to remain a virgin on purpose.Plus I'm sure that the whole religion thing freaks them out, too!