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Cousin is being unreasonable. The whole "pay what you want" thing seems destined to cause problems.

I do think an open accounting up front (prior to booking) is very important in these kind of things. If assumptions are made, someone's always going to feel taken advantage of.

Example - my husband goes to an annual bowling tournament with a bunch of his buddies and last year there was some dissent over the costs because a guy "passed out" in husband's room and so didn't use the room he was originally planning to share with some other guys. Apparently one train of thought was that whoever was in the room in the morning paid their share of that room - so three guys in one room, each pay 1/3, four guys - 1/4, two guys - 1/2.

The guys who had to pay 1/2 because their roommie happened to sleep/pass out in the other room were mad they had to pay more, while the three guys who had the inconvenience of a drunk guy passed out in their room thought it was perfectly OK to have to pay 1/4 and not 1/3 (and apparently this is how it used to be done for their previously much-larger group).

In the end my husband paid the 2 upset guys just to make everyone happy, but there were pretty hard feelings over what was probably like $20 a person either way. Problem was that it was not stated up front how the costs would be done and everyone thought the way they thought was right.
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