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Author: sashamore Big red star, 1000 posts Old School Fool Add to my Favorite Fools Ignore this person (you won't see their posts anymore) Number: of 5021  
Subject: following the golden rule....... Date: 7/28/2009 9:52 PM
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heaven knows this is something we all try to do, but sometimes, as in the
matter i am going to ask your help on, things escalate to a point where bad stuff happens...........

when i told michael in the politest, kindest possible terms that i would not
be happy if he moved into the apartment in my building, and that i really really did not want him to, he went absolutely BALLISTIC.....called me
every name in the book, told me how selfish i am, how ungrateful i am
(for what i dont know)...and on and on.........

i must digress now: i have been in a relationship w a married guy for 20
years....he is 10 years younger than i am.......we care about each other
very much, and tho we are not particularly sexual after all this time,
we are --if not in love--certainly in a deeply lovING relationship, we MATTER to each other..........does his wife know? he says no, i feel
she must...or if not, they have some sort of arrangement.......

back to michael........at one completely insane moment, i told michael
about my relationship w. ken.......and michael is so angry at me about
the apartment, he is, in his own words, "thinking about calling ken's wife".

as you can imagine, i am beyond beyond, and as i sit here with the
tears rolling down my cheeks and onto the keyboard, i am terrified and
wonder what to do.......i am so hoping you will be able to advise....

re ken: do i say nothing and hope that michael wont fulfill his threat?
do i call ken and tell him him that this crazy person is threatening to
expose us to the wife? do i call ken and tell him that this crazy person who is seeking revenge is telling lies about me to everyone?

do i write to michael and apologise for making his life so miserable?
would it make any difference if i did? probably not.....

should i jump out the window? no, i live on the ground floor and the best i'd..get is a sprained ankle...

i am grateful for your thoughts...


sasha
a very sad person.......
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