Great Conundrum!!!!How would *YOU* solve this, if YOU were the judge?>>> Let’s say a lesbian woman is in a gay civil marriage, and she chooses to save time and money, or maybe she just wants to have some fun on the side (many “lesbians” actually do sleep with straight men from time to time), and gets pregnant in the cheap, conventional way — by penis. When pregnant she assures her partner that the child will be theirs, but neglects to tell the man she’s pregnant, or her partner how she got pregnant — let’s say she lied and said she used donor sperm. Later, she files for divorce and initiates a paternity suit against the biological father at the same time in an effort to kill two birds with one stone (deep-six the lesbian lover’s custody chances and get child support at the same time). In the meanwhile, the non-maternal partner had legally adopted the child. But the man never knew he had a kid, and after he’s hit with the paternity suit he gets involved and sues for visitation, arguing that he should have a right to see the child he didn’t know about. If you’re a judge, how do you settle this? Does the non-maternal lesbian pay child support and keep visitation rights, or does the father take on that role? What does the judge do about the adoption? Does the child have the right to a relationship with his biological father, or a non-related lesbian “father?” And keep in mind that this is simply one of many possible permutations of the custody problem that could arise in lesbian civil marriages. <<<http://www.the-spearhead.com/2012/11/15/gay-marriage-fallout......I don't know the answer, but the answer wouldn't be unique to lesbian couples. Substitute a straight married couple where the man is sterile, and the woman gets pregnant the same way as in the example above. You run across the exact same problem.In any case, I think it is a stupid article. Just because the author has a low opinion of marriage in general (and is willing to come up with bizarre examples as above to justify his opinion), that doesn't mean marriage is wrong for others:"I don’t think gay marriage will make much of a difference to society in general...However, it will make a difference for the people who actually (unwisely) get involved in a gay civil marriage, because they will suddenly become subject to the same kind of tangled mess that so many straight couples get into."He ends the article with:The lesson:Be careful what you wish forYeah, because having greater freedom to make your own choices is such a negative overall.
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