I had some luck with www.match.com. Just make sure you filter good :)

I'm almost in my mid-30s and there are a lot of hot men available. I've learned that men closer to their 40s make the best lovers and I can't barely stand those under 32 -- too much drama.

The hot late 30s men though are mostly looking for younger women because of looks. Luckily for me, I look younger so I managed to snag a few.

:P

Good luck to you.

IG