I think it's great that he's waiting. If he's not ready to be married, then he certainly isn't ready to be a daddy, and he shouldn't be porking until he is ready for the pitter-patter of little feet.


Dumbass doppel:

When I was like 5 years old, I thought that when you got married, then God somehow just knew that you were married and let you have babies.

At about age 6, I started figuring out that the whole God thing was about as plausible as Santa Claus bringing presents via our nonexistent chimney and still having time to bring them to every kid in the entire planet. It took me a little longer to figure out the mechanics of reproductive freedom, but not as long as, for instance, you.

Getting married and having kids are two completely separate activities. Also, you can pork all you want to--before or after marriage--and never have to hear the pitter-patter of little screaming tax deductions. In your case, however, it's probably best that you're confused and think you can't have sex without a baby following, since it makes you "save it for marriage" and therefore prevents you from reproducing more of your own kind.

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