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Is there work in the field you want to work in in the current area where you live, that you could do if you didn't feel you had to care for your parents full-time?

Because another option could be either your parents and siblings pay you for the in-home care you're providing (since this has enabled your parents to age-in-place and your siblings not to feel they have to help), or you get a job in your area, start paying your parents some rent with that money, and then they pay for some in-home care with that money. And then all siblings living in the area, including you, split up helping out your parents on days when they don't have in-home care, or the occational "favors" that may come up - since you didn't make it sound like your parents needed round-the-clock care.

It seems to me, if you could get work in your current area, that would be the best option on getting yourself established and start re-building a life where you can support yourself down the road --- while also having a roof over your head for yourself and your dog without having to go into debt for it before you're sure of a stable income.
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