I've had few groups that actually want challenging content, most want to run through a dungeon on normal.

When the game first came out Normal WAS challanging. I'm sure by now with all the twinking (very few items have level restrictions and nothing is soulbound like WoW) most peoples' alts are forces to be reckoned with.

The best way to play the game is with people new to it. Unfortunately that's pretty hard to find and I found it annoying to play "tag along". The other way is to only do the new dungeons so that everyone is new to the content. Still though, if you can find a slower paced group it can be fun. It's never fun being led by the nose.

And yes, the documentation sucks. Especially with no way to respec.

Simon