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<< Our girls take gymnastics and dance yes but he failed to tell you his money is not paying for it. I worked out a deal with the owner whom happens to think of myself and the girls as family. I clean the studio during my free time to cover the expense so it is not costing us but my time. In which I would gladly do any day for them to have the experience and social benefit of it. >>

This is a good example of very unrealistic thinking. It supports the complaints your husband has made.

What you are saying here is that what HE earns is OUR money and what I earn is MY money.

You will bestir yourself to get the things you want for your children, but not to contribute to family finances, which is really your FIRST obligation.

Frankly that's a selfish and unrealistic attitude.

Seattle Pioneer
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