I'm trying to think of some "suffering" I could do.
My current idea, which furthers some goals I have, is to sell up to one third of my books and compact discs, putting half to a designated registered charity of my choice (probably something helping poor, indigent women and children), and half to a designated registered charity of the buyer's choice, and then taking half the value of the purchase from my bank stash into my baby's college fund. I can declutter, give to charities and to my baby beyond my maternal duties.