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Yikes, ellaluna, that's a big load to dump on a guy.

I went back and reread what you posted earlier. You have only known this guy for a month or two. Most people I know, male or female, are not going to spill their guts to someone they've known such a short time, and many people are never going to "share all" in this way. To request that he do so because he owes you in some way because you got kissy once on a non-date may make him think you have way too much emotionally invested for such a new acquaintance. I think you are in serious danger of scaring him off completely, as he may be thinking this your behavior is too much, too fast, too needy, and you are way too agressive, acting like you are long-term intimate bosom buddies.

Don't scare him off by making him "the man." You hardly know him. Give yourselves both time.

*OK, what do I know; I haven't dated since 1970
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