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You have just described my entire married life. Oh, this hasn't gone on every minute of it, but it's been a problem all along. Actually started before we were married, but I didn't recognize it until later.

This was a great description for the most part of my married life with my ex-wife... needless to say it did not turn into something that could be worked out... I am not an angel on spending money by any means.. but on my second go at marrage I now am married to someone that is very strict with spending money, and lets just say everything is working out great... not to say that making a marrage an ex-marrage is an answer... but for some its an option... Lets just say its wonderful to know that when someone says that the bills are paid they REALLY are paid... my ex-wife was nice enough to tell me for months that everything was fine, we were paying bills and we even had a growing savings... later found that things were many months late to just about everyone we owed money to, and that the money in the bank did not equal by any stretch of the mind what should have been there from our income seeing as how none of it went to the bill collectors... she actually told me that she did now want to live the type of life style we could afford if we actually paid the bills... yeah I know I had to think about that for a sec before it hit me... After the cards were run up, she stopped paying them and spent the cash instead... fun fun... anyway... good luck all with spouses like this...
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