You obviously haven't read many of my past posts here, or you would know that talking out loud to the dead isn't something that sounds all that corny to me.

(I recall feeling silly at one point, but not corny.)

Please feel free to continue "babbling". But I don't think anyone here thinks that's what it is.

Ralph


You are right. I think I just feel a little silly because I never met her. But I did feel like she was listening.

I saw him again last night. We've definitely stepped it back a bit. I think we both need to go a lot slower. I'm happy with that. I need to get to know him better, and vice versa. I'm glad he feels like he can talk to me.

I see him hesitating a bit--he doesn't want to be a burden, as if he ever could. But with a little prodding, the floodgates open. He really spent the first few months after she died in his house. Now I think he's feeling lonely, and needs human contact. I think we are both lucky that we are hanging out with a very cool group of people at the club.

I'm really glad you guys are here. I hope I can give back as much as you've given me.

Thanks,

ellaluna