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Subject:  Re: Just a thought ... Date:  11/13/2003  10:30 PM
Author:  cabinmama Number:  7 of 8

We have four children between the two of us ... my son is 17, my two daughters are 14 & 8, and his son is 5 years old

My son was 5 when we got married. He's now 17. He really doesn't remember NOT being part of a blended family, and sees DH as his Dad even though he calls him by his first name. He is very bonded to his step-brother and step-sister and her family.

DH's kids were 15 and 13 when we got married. One thing I learned: sometimes it matters less about what you do or don't do, than what your basic personality is like. My step-son, 28, and I can talk for hours about books, movies, etc.,and he will listen to my step-daughter and I get along, and I'd do anything for her, but we wouldn't "hang out".

It sounds like your future step-son will be doing a lot of adjusting, from an "only" to the youngest of 4 kids! Hopefully your kids are willing to step up to the "big bother/sister plate". Most 5 year olds have a lot of hero-worship to bestow on a cool older sib.

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