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Subject:  Re: What My Financial Adviser Recommends Date:  5/29/2014  11:55 AM
Author:  inparadise Number:  75107 of 103300

...in the hospital, they, reportedly, also do not honor advanced directives.

It is not mandatory for your spouse to do so either, at least in some states, so get on the same page with your significant other. When Mom had her stroke, Dad overrode her wishes to avoid extreme measures, telling the doctors to do whatever they had to do to keep her alive. It didn't matter that she had documents to the contrary on file.

She lived for over 10 years in a severely compromised state, slowly getting worse with time as her circulation declined. A proud accomplished woman, she was at first devastated at her physical and mental state, until her mental state declined to the point where she didn't seem to be aware of her condition having changed from a better state.

DH was shocked and appalled when I told him of my intent. I plan on sending him to help his sister with their mom when her time comes. He will no longer have the work excuse and really needs that education in order to judge my preferences.

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