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A while back Fly Lady was all the rage on these boards. ( She has a website, and an email list, where she will email you reminders several times a day.

I subscribed to the reminders for about three days, and I did not respond well to them. But a year or so later I realize that there are still a number of habits that I've kept from her system, so I thought I would share them and why they work for me.

I do recommend trying Fly Lady for anyone who is overwhelmed and would like someone to tell them how to start increasing order.

- Have a morning routine
A sense of accomplishment in the morning gets me through the next few hours. I spend about half an hour waking up with the computer, then empty the dishwasher, water the cats, clean the sink, and get ready for the day.

- Get dressed to the shoes
It makes a difference to me because I get more done when I have shoes on. Go figure.

- Clean the sink daily
If I don't do it every day, I don't do it, and sometimes it gets really gross, so I don't want to do anything with the sink. Some mornings I clean it more thoroughly than others, but I do swipe it almost every day. It helps that I recently replaced the sink so I want to keep it looking this way.

- Baby steps.
Changing habits takes time, patience, and consistency. I have to take pleasure in my small accomplishments and look at what I'm doing now as opposed to what I have left to do. I've finally figured out that I can get things done doing a little bit every day.

- The first thing you have to do is declutter.
Cleaning is so much easier when I don't have to start by moving stuff all of the time. And I'm happier now that more of my items are worthwhile.

- Do laundry one load at a time.
She has laundry as part of the daily routine, but luckily I don't have that much. I didn't mind doing the laundry many loads at a time, but I would take days to get around to putting it away. So now I do one load on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday and put it away by the end of the evening. No more piles of clean laundry.

- You can do anything for 15 minutes.
Whenever I really really don't want to do something I set the timer for 15 minutes. There are a number of reasons this works for me. It's hard for me to get started some days. Some tasks I have to do are boring and I dread every minute; knowing that the timer will set me free helps. Some tasks are overwhelming and I don't want to tackle them in part, so the timer helps me focus on the most urgent spot in a room, for example.

- Work on your disaster area, just a little.
I've modified this a bit. Every day I deal with one thing that has been bothering me. Sometimes it's something small. Other times it's something big. But it's always something that gives me a knot in my stomach. And I've learned that I can clean up any mess, but I have to start.

What tips do other people use (from FlyLady or other sources)?

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