No. of Recommendations: 10
How do other couples do it?

Many get divorced. Money problems are the leading cause of divorce.

The only way I can think to wake him up is to tell him that as far as marriage goes, this is the deal-breaker.

Make it clear that it's not his income that is a problem, but his out-go and his attitude about it. If you want to save the engagement, pre-marriage counseling is a must.

I just panic because fiancee assumes I will pick up any slack he has in his budget, the way his parents do now.

This sentence speaks volumes!


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