No. of Recommendations: 6
I also am troubled by this whole thread.

You're not the only one bothered by this thread. It seems to me that people have focused on the OP's spouse quitting work without telling her as though all their financial problems are his fault. She has admitted that after he quit work, she did not cut back on the spending, and worse, she started to take cash advances from her credit cards to pay for her mother's assisted living expenses without telling him. She certainly did not have to do that, and if she had chosen not to do it, then most her mother should have qualified for low income assisted living or even a medicaid funded nursing home. Either of these choices would have kept the OP's finances intact, and would have still provided her mother with the housing and services that she needed.

I think there were plenty of mistakes made, and they weren't only made by the OP's husband.
Print the post  


UGC Disclosure Notice Regarding Credit Card Posts
Community board discussions about credit cards are not provided or commissioned by banks who may have advertising relationships with The Motley Fool. Responses have not been reviewed, approved or otherwise endorsed by the bank advertiser. It is not the bank advertiser's responsibility to ensure all posts and/or questions are answered.
TMF Credit Center
The Motley Fool Credit Center arms you with real tools and simple messages, that will help you in every credit situation.
What was Your Dumbest Investment?
Share it with us -- and learn from others' stories of flubs.
When Life Gives You Lemons
We all have had hardships and made poor decisions. The important thing is how we respond and grow. Read the story of a Fool who started from nothing, and looks to gain everything.
Contact Us
Contact Customer Service and other Fool departments here.
Work for Fools?
Winner of the Washingtonian great places to work, and Glassdoor #1 Company to Work For 2015! Have access to all of TMF's online and email products for FREE, and be paid for your contributions to TMF! Click the link and start your Fool career.