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Hon, I tried posting a response on Monday but the internet cafe connection ate it. I`m trying to remember exactly what I said....

3) My carefully constructed self-reality that made me able to believe that he wasn’t like this before and just changed into this is crumbling, and I am faced with the idea that I was too young and blind to really fathom what I was in, or so naïve I thought it could be overcome. Either way, this made-reality is crumbling because of the forced history-writing that has been occurring and is shaking me to my core. I mean I’ve come away from a session with my lawyer trembling for hours after. I’m shaking now, actually. I got through almost two years now by allowing myself to believe that he had changed, and apparently it is just as painful coming out of that stage as it was going into it.

FWIW, you aren`t the only person to wake up one day and realise that either love was blind or they were just too stuborn to read the writing on the wall. I HATE and DETEST
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