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<<Also, I expect him to be the sole bread earner. That's the agreement we have had since we got engaged. He knows that I want financial security (be debt-free), to own our home (no matter how modest) and be able to save for our old age. He wants those things, too. And, he knows that it is entirely his duty to make it happen, even if he has to work two full-time jobs. In fact, he has even said that before *I* am compelled to work outside the home to help us get by, he will work two jobs.

Since you are disclosing your arrangements and expectations, I have to note that in my opinion they are unfair and unreasonable. You are making a lot of demands on your husband but don't seem to be putting much on the table yourself.

Seattle Pioneer
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