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Great! It was wonderfully romantic, I'll never forget it.
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It was just ok, didn't last long, no oral, he passed out right after.
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What sex, all we did was fight over his stupid family.
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What sex, all we did was fight over my stupid family.
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What sex? We were so drunk we both passed out in our pants.
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I reckon you're talking about the first wedding, are you?

Abe
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<<I reckon you're talking about the first wedding, are you?
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Well, I've only had one but yeah, let's stick with the first marriage for this poll.
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How was the wedding night sex?

What wedding?

jak
still waiting for the day
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IMHO, if Wedding Night Sex for a couple would also be the very first time when they do it, it can only be awkward and bad. Good Sex is horny and sordid and you need to be physically experienced with your partner. It's stupid to load up with additional pressure by anticipating a certain social event to do "it" for the very first time.

Mac
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Other option for those of us who've had a couple of shots at opening night sex:

Which time?

JW
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I vote for:

We each looked at each other: Fantastic wedding! WONDERFUL time! Exhausted!! Thank God we've been living together, and we don't feel we HAVE to do it NOW. So we snuggled up and went to sleep.


sheila
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We each looked at each other: Fantastic wedding! WONDERFUL time! Exhausted!! Thank God we've been living together, and we don't feel we HAVE to do it NOW. So we snuggled up and went to sleep.

I'm un-married but this was the exact approach my HS boyfriend and I took on prom night (minus the living together part). I actually don't think we bothered to take off our clothes or get under the covers!

Jez
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Well, those are all good reasons for:

1. Not having an evening wedding
2. Not serving (or drinking) alcohol at the wedding
3. Not "partying hard" the night before the wedding day
4. Not trying to get to your honeymoon destination on the wedding day
5. Not expecting to get to the moon on the first try - I certainly didn't successfully ride a bike, knit a sweater, or even bake a cake on the first try, and I don't expect to have an orgasm with my husband on the first try either.
6. Discussing what you expect out of the whole "wedding night" experience

What makes "wedding night sex" any different than "first time premarital sex"? You're going to have problems, and anyone who doesn't know that, expect it, and plan for it, is an idiot who probably shouldn't be getting married, either!
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We each looked at each other: Fantastic wedding! WONDERFUL time! Exhausted!! Thank God we've been living together, and we don't feel we HAVE to do it NOW.

As far as I know, no one's going to be coming to my bedroom the morning after to check the sheets for signs of my virginity and to make sure that the marriage had been consummated.

I know there are a lot of people who are virgins when they get married who DON'T have sex on their wedding night, for a variety of reasons.

It's something you have to discuss beforehand, though.
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I don't expect to have an orgasm with my husband on the first try either.
____
Then again, you might.

JW
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2. Not serving (or drinking) alcohol at the wedding


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<blank stare>
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LOL.

My family is comprised mostly of alcoholics, and my church friends are all non-drinkers.

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I don't expect to have an orgasm with my husband on the first try either.
____
Then again, you might.


Right, but expecting it adds a whole new dimension of stress to it.

That's not to say that I'm not packing a vibrator (or two) in my luggage, along with a good supply of rechargable batteries...
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<blank stare>
<blank stare>

I've been to three booze-free weddings.

1. Happy couple too cheap and judgmental to serve it. Everyone ended up getting completely wired on lemonade and coffee and probably acting worse than we would have if we had had other options. We had to go out and drink afterwards, just to flush the sugar and caffeine out of our systems.

2. Happy couple too poor to serve it, plus fundie family members would have disapproved. Also, not enough room for guests to stand in the place they rented. Also, it rained so those people who didn't fit inside had to stand in the rain and listen to the ceremony. Also, only enough food for about 1/4 of the guests.

3. One member of happy couple in recovery, but told all his college party animal friends to feel free to BYOB. One guest set up a discreet bar and served beer out of the back of his van.

It just shouldn't be done.

red
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My family is comprised mostly of alcoholics

Hey! Mine, too. What are the odds?
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Hey! Mine, too. What are the odds?

Is that why you are crazy, too?!
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Is that why you are crazy, too?!

That's why she's a boozehound. Crazy is a separate issue.

red
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Is that why you are crazy, too?!


No way. Booze is the only thing that brings me any sanity, woman.

It's everything else that makes me crazy.
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Totally greeked by red. I like it.
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One of my favorite professors used to quote:

"When a man who doesn't drink wakes up in the morning, that is the best he is going to feel all day."

It may come from Churchill, I need to look it up sometime.

JW
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Either him or WC Fields I'm sure.

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2. Not serving (or drinking) alcohol at the wedding

Dude, even Jesus wanted wine at the wedding.

LCK
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Dude, even Jesus wanted wine at the wedding.


Actually, He didn't care. It was his mom that was whining about it.
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Hmmmm...if I have to buy a new outfit for a wedding then go buy that stupid masaka water pitcher for $50 bucks and give up a Saturday to go to a wedding, I better have a drink waiting for me! Champagne or a nice Merlot will do.
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Where is the none of the above choice? I didnt even have wedding night sex...by the time we got to the hotel we were so tired we couldnt keep our eyes opened...we did however have morning after wedding sex...and that sucked...hurt like a damn beeech ( cus it was my first time)


Rep
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hurt like a damn beeech ( cus it was my first time)

Well, I guess this is coming in a little too late, but...

1. RELAX
2. Lots of foreplay
3. There's no such thing as too much lube.

You taking notes, frissy?

LCK
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Well, I guess this is coming in a little too late, but...

1. RELAX
2. Lots of foreplay
3. There's no such thing as too much lube.

You taking notes, frissy?


Way ahead of you:

Astroglide is WAY better than KY

Also, let's add:

4. Bring a couple different kinds of vibrators
5. Make him use his tongue
6. Go SLOW the first time
7. "Stretching" the few weeks up to the big day helps prevent or reduce the pain (I don't think I'll have a problem with that though - accident when I was a kid)
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Bring a couple different kinds of vibrators


Not into that stuff...

Rep
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Bring a couple different kinds of vibrators

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Not into that stuff...

Rep


We know, honey. We know.
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