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I have a father with dementia and failing health. I am working with two brothers to manage his investments and health care. This is all done with the four of us scattered across the country - none of us in the same city. While I am quite comfortable with my own investment portfolio and managing my retirement cash flow, tax, medicare etc. I am thinking it might be wise to seek some advice on how best to proceed with my father's investments and expenses. He is leaving all his estate to be split 3 ways between my brothers and I.

I explain all this because I have suggested that we talk to an outside expert to get some guidance. Mostly, I feel like my brothers will be more receptive to an outside expert's advice than they would be to me simply telling them what I think is best. Although my older brother does have power of attorney, he and my younger brother are reluctant to actually spend dollars from my father's accounts so we are splitting up each expense and paying ourselves. I feel like this is not wise for several reasons but have not convinced them yet.

So . . . I am asking if any of you have advice on finding the right person to provide guidance. I really just need a one time consult, I believe. I am encouraging my brothers to work with whoever we find so I am looking for someone in the Dallas or Los Angeles areas, although I guess that's not critical. I vaguely recall seeing posts in the past that provide urls listing investment and tax advisers, but did not find them in my brief attempts to search.
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