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Yes he has dyslexia. I have seen him spell the name "Eric" at least 4 different ways. Kind of amusing given that one of my goals as a kid was to win the national spelling bee (no I didn't make it.) Aggravating when it comes to things like remembering addresses and phone numbers.

So maybe you need a different approach here. Maybe you need to do something to accommodate his dyslexia. Would he let you take over paying all his bills from his accounts? That way, you could ensure that they are being paid, and they are still being paid from his accounts so you continue to have separate finances. It would be as though he were hiring you to be his business manager, and so you'd handle all the logistics around the bill paying.

That won't help your problem where he can't remember the address, but maybe you can get him to let you do that sort of paperwork and just handle all the finances. Maybe you could also get him to put in a change-of-address at the post office so that all his mail that goes to his parents' house would be forwarded to you, and then you can go in and make the address change for those accounts.

He would just have to give you permission on all of his accounts, and then you can even call in and deal with issues over the phone.

This has worked well for us on the accounts that DH has in his own name as we each have separate accounts although we do co-mingle all our finances.

It just seems to me that you might be dealing with issues from his dyslexia that may also be embarrassing for him to admit or request help with, and so being proactive here might help both of you achieve your goals.
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